“Music Monday”

Hello everyone, hope everyone is having a fantastic Monday today. Today as you know it is Music Monday and today we want to highlight the classic by Journey Don’t Stop Believing which is a very motivational song that I will have the average normal person feeling inspired and motivated to accomplish whatever they wish to accomplish. This is definitely a song that I listen to while working out. But anyways take a listen and enjoy


“Tattoo Tuesday”

Hello everyone, hope everyone is enjoying their day today on yet again another beautiful day in the tri-state. Sometimes the beautiful weather inspires people to do great things. As we know today is Tattoo Tuesday  and today we want to highlight this tattoo. Please tell us what you think and maybe this is inspiration for your next tattoo or even your very first one.


“MJ Mondays”

Hello everyone, I hope everyone is enjoying this beautiful Monday in the tri-state. Today Bachelor21 wants to introduce “MJ Mondays” where every Monday we will be paying homage to the goat of basketball. Bachelor21 is about to add a sports section for all my sport lovers out there, because Bachelor21 is very much into sports as well. Today we will be showcasing some of Jordan’s highlights from when he dropped 63 on the Celtics in his first run in the playoffs which Larry Bird the legend himself played in as well.

Tattoo Tuesday

Hello all, I hope everyone had a fantastic day and no I’m not just saying that I really mean that. Especially if you take the time out to read my material. Anyway today is Tattoo Tuesday and the highlighted piece is really a tremendous work of art. Please tell me what you think and I will talk to you guys. Be great, and Be positive!

Music Monday

Hello all, I hope everyone is having a great day Monday as hard as that might be for some of us I truly hope you are having a good first day to your week. You know what today is! It’s Music Monday! This week we will be highlighting a song from one of the greatest classical singers to ever do it. Frank Sinatra’s New York, New York maybe can be described as the National Anthem of New York City. Frank Sinatra is surely one of the most influential singers that ever lived and his legacy will continue….

“Soulful Sunday”

Today, Bachelor21 wants to introduce Soulful Sunday where on any given Sunday there will be a highlighted spoken word that provides power to the mind, body, and soul. The first spoken word comes from one Bachelor21’s favorite poets Maya Angelou. Anyone that is familiar with Angelou’s work know’s that she is a very motivating, transcendent iconic figure that will you leave you in awe with the wisdom and artistry of the words coming out of her mouth. The piece of work that will be expressing and sharing is called “Still I Rise.” Those familiar with this knows how powerful it is. I’m just going to leave it here for you and should tell me what you think, and what it means to you. Without further a due….

"You may write me down in history
With your bitter, twisted lies,
You may trod me in the very dirt
But still, like dust, I’ll rise.

Does my sassiness upset you?
Why are you beset with gloom?
‘Cause I walk like I’ve got oil wells
Pumping in my living room.

Just like moons and like suns,
With the certainty of tides,
Just like hopes springing high,
Still I’ll rise.

Did you want to see me broken?
Bowed head and lowered eyes?
Shoulders falling down like teardrops,
Weakened by my soulful cries?

Does my haughtiness offend you?
Don’t you take it awful hard
‘Cause I laugh like I’ve got gold mines
Diggin’ in my own backyard.

You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I’ll rise.

Does my sexiness upset you?
Does it come as a surprise
That I dance like I’ve got diamonds
At the meeting of my thighs?

Out of the huts of history’s shame
I rise
Up from a past that’s rooted in pain
I rise
I’m a black ocean, leaping and wide,
Welling and swelling I bear in the tide.

Leaving behind nights of terror and fear
I rise
Into a daybreak that’s wondrously clear
I rise
Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave,
I am the dream and the hope of the slave.
I rise
I rise
I rise." 

“Let Yah Hands Go”

What’s the concept? “Let Your Hands Go” This was used from a boxing trainer who trained a very wise young man at the time. As it relates to Boxing this simply means to stop being hesitant, when you see you’re opening, strike! Forget you’re doubts and others doubts and “Let your hands go”! It is even deeper than that, but  this is how it is related to boxing, but when the wise man told me about this phrase I chose to relate it to life in general!

In a world where there is negativity surrounding each and every one of us, it maybe hard to concentrate on the positive aspects of life. Every time you turn around, it may seem like another grieving tragedy has hit the surface.

I’m here today basically to encourage and motivate others to stop fully focusing on the negative things in their life and the negative shit going on around them. I know it’s easier said then done, and I know being aware of the news that is being reported which is mostly negative, sometimes is important. Remember this though, when you have all this negative shit and excuse my language, but if it is negative, its shit! So anyway when having all this negative stuff cluttering around, and consuming all you’re thoughts, you will have no room for positive forces and positive things to grow into your life.

Like attracts like! In knowing this as it pertains to the subject at hand, when you keep focusing on the negative obstacles, whatever negative energy that is around you, you’re only attracting more negative forces into your life.

I said this before, I’m just here to start helping you change you’re thought pattern, and help you to see the world as you know it in a more positive life. I want you to start thinking you can accomplish the goals everyone doubts you about. I want you to start feeling good about the shinning bright star that you are. I know it sounds cliche, but do you know, you can accomplish anything in this life that is humanly possible if you just put your mind to it. No one on this Earth possess the same great qualities that you do that makes you, you! You were created different to shine different! Everyone on this Earth was put here for a purpose! You are a gift from God and don’t be afraid to share your gifts with others.

Once you start changing your mindset, which is to try to find a positive in every situation weather it’s “positive” or “negative”. Start to feel good about everything around you, and you will see things start to change in your favor. Stop worrying about what others have to say about you’re dreams and endeavors if it isn’t positive or constructive. People try to make you feel insecure when they are the one’s actually insecure, because they cannot express their gift to the level that you can.

Trust and believe that the majority of society, and the people you see everyday on a day to day basis are so self- conscious, they don’t even have time to be worried about you, or how you look, or the content that you are maybe sharing. Just stop caring about others opinions, because at the end of the day no one’s opinion truly matters except your own. “Let Your Hands Go!” Stop being tentative and scared with your gift or whatever you do in life. It’s easy to be scared of you’re “sky is the limit” potential, but I just want you to get there! Faith is stronger than fear! Affirm everyday that you are going to accomplish everything you want for that day, and really believe it! Affirm that you are going to have a great day at work, classes, court, having a good game in a sporting event. Whatever it is, you just have to affirm that you can do it!

I will be back with more inspiring and motivating content for all my viewers because at the end of the day I just want to see everyone around me succeed, and accomplish their goals and we can’t do that with a negative mindset. Enjoy the rest of your Sunday and I will get back with you guys tomorrow!



Dress Code

Hello everyone,  hope everyone is doing great today and no I’m not just saying that I really mean that! I’m grateful in whatever has brought here on today even if you clicked on a link by mistake, which in return led you to this site, I’m still grateful in that fact! Anyway today I want to discuss the importance of dress code and the outfits that are appropriate for each setting!

First off, I’m no expert when it comes to this fashion topic, but I do take pride in the way i like to be presentable at all times weather I’m in a more urban based outfit or my fresh out of GQ magazine look. “When you look good, you feel good, when you feel good, you do good!” said by the iconic Deion Sanders, Mr Primetime himeself,

So, with that being said when going to a job interview I suggest wearing a basic two piece suit without too many bright colors or patterns. We are not going to a fashion show people. It’s always best to keep it simple when going to a job interview which i suggest wearing darker colors with most likely only 2 colors or 3 that are incorporated in the suit piece with the tie to give a smooth offset. I don’t suggest going to a interview with anything more than or less than a tie. Don’t be extra wearing a bow tie to the interview that is going to put you in that successful position that are going to be in. Have a nice pair of dress shoes in the closet that you keep fresh! I’m sure all of you guys know these simple rules but it never hurts to have a refresher every now and again. You will get that job you want! Be positive and dress professionally!

Now, if you are in college like myself, and planning on going to a house party in the basement the dress code rules become a lot less stricter. When I tell you some of these female students wear next to nothing sometimes. But, Hey, that’s neither here, nor there! So when it comes the young bachelors out here, you can wear something that makes you standout and have fun with your outfit. Just please make sure you please match. I know that’s a given,but when you’ve seen some of the stuff I’ve seen I’ll tell you, it should be reinforced. I also suggest not wearing the best shoes in the closet as there will be a lot of feet in sometimes a compacted area so sometimes people will step on your sneaks or whatever you may have on your feet and scuff your shits up. It’s just suggestion. Also it’s going to get hot too, trust me!

If you are apart of the 21 plus club and like to go to bars and clubs in the nearby cities you probably already have a sense to as what you should be wearing. You could always rock some nice form fitted jeans, with a fit it t-shirt such as a V-neck depending on the weather. Make sure the foot attire is proper. And what I mean by that, this is where you can make some noise and get attention from by making sure what you have on your feet are clean, in season, and in style with a little flare to set yourself apart from the rest of your peers.

Now last but not least, if you are happening to go a ball or a formal with a date, special friend, whoever they might be, I suggest in matching in some way or shape or form. For the young bachelor he should wear the tuxedo I like personally all black with the white button up and the I like bow tie to these type of events. The bow tie is where you can match with whoever you brought to the occasion with.

Like I said, I ‘m no expert on this but am passionate about it. These are just a few simple tips that can make all the world difference sometimes without knowing it. I hope you enjoy the rest of your day!

Music Monday

On this week’s Music Monday we will be highlighting a classic that is bound to make anyone that has any top of rhythm to start moving. This song originally came out on February 24, 1999 as the second single off his album titled 400 DegreezThis song feat. a young Lil wayne who had a somewhat a simple verse but still hit the ears different because of his delivery and swag on the beat. Anyway today’s music Monday we selected Back That Azz up. Like I said play this at a party in an urban community and watch how the tone of the party changes.

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